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This sounds a lot more like a cry for an adoption than an abortion.
Not neccissarily, in the end the woman/girl shouldn't have had sex or taken measures to prevent it in the first place. But if it happens, then we have to consider how many kids are waiting for adoption.
Don't get me wrong, I would much rather see a child born and then adopted rather than aborted, but this isnt a disscussion which is better, its a disscussion on the morality of abortion as an act.
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So, because she's a shitty mother, then that kid should have died to make her life easier?
Look, in my example, I've met this girl, she is a shitty mother. Its not that she's balancing her social life and her child, she dumps the kid with her mother (the childs grandmother) and doesnt show up for days, when she does show up shes either drunk or stoned off her ass. The grandmother (my mothers freind) is thankfully a good mother and takes very good care of her, but the troubled partying child is about to move out to Colorado (or some state out West) with the father who abuses her, does drugs, drinks HEAVILY, and will probably do some of the same to the child. I dont think thats a good way for a child to grow up in. But the 19 year old wont give her up for adoption. So this child is going to grow up having a pretty shitty childhood.
So whats the alternative there? Granted, she will eventually have the child taken away from her (someone has to call child services, hell I'm comtemplating doing it right now) and she gets addopted, most likely to a loving family. But how long will that take? What mental damage will this kid grow up thinking?
I dont like abortion, I think its horrible, but I do think that its the mothers chioce in the end. Whatever reason, selfish, rape, whatever, its the mothers choice.