well my brother called me today, he found the 30 gauge wire, he had to drive to a radio shack in another city though. he also picked up some desoldering braid and the thinnest solder they had... so hopefully this weekend we'll be able to get er dun

and no i didn't solder a wireless adaptor

I'm not that noob
i soldered in the pogo pin adaptor like it said to. the little black plastic piece with all the metal pins sticking in it... you stick that in the lpc ports and solder em in, then the x-chip just slides onto it for easy mounting
Pogo pins = push in out .
Header pin is what yoiu mean, the 2 by 6 array of pins, is what you soldered.
So if the plastic was melting iron was too HOT or soldering iron held so long on the pins.
Also, if you want your kynar wire (that's how the 30 gage wire is called) to stick to the contacts when soldering them on, prep the wires by adding a small amount of solder on the tip of the wire so it sticks better on the contact.
Ok I've got everything soldered in now but it's fragging. I think it's just the bios though since I went over all contacts and resoldered anything loose...
So I'm writing in the evox 1.2 that I got from the xchip folder at xbins ftp.... Do I still need another bios in one of the banks to boot games off the hdd?