| QUOTE (Canuck77 @ Jan 9 2003, 04:28 PM) |
| Why do people need to make fun of things like Special Ed and children with Down's? Honestly - are you people so small-minded that you can't see what little opportunity life has to offer people who are born with one of these conditions? I seriously hope that when you are older (assuming any of you manage to crawl your way out of your parents' basements) you never have to look at a newborn baby who has been diagnosed with Down's Syndrome, and realize that the best they can ever hope for is far worse than anyone else would ever expect. Same with people in Special Ed. Piss on you. |
| QUOTE (Canuck77 @ Jan 9 2003, 05:09 PM) |
| THEY are worthy targets, but people in Special Ed (*or* people with Down's) are not. How about something like "The Moron Awards", or something along those lines? If you've truly got a kid in Special Ed, you know damned well that he takes a whole shitload of abuse from his friends for it - and that it doesn't do him any service to be saying what you're saying. There's been TONS of this kind of stuff on this board - from that "Generation Matrix" thing, to that "Shut The Fuck Up Award" (with the Down's kid crossing the finish line at a Special Olympic event)... and it was one too many. The fact that you consider it a high horse at all is sad, really - it implies that you wouldn't expect most people to be beneath making fun of Special Ed, Down's, or whatever. My point is this: If you called it the "Polock Awards", you should get flamed, because equating annoying, uninformed people to Polish people isn't right. As you so rightly say, why is it alright to equate it to people in Special Ed? ...and you HAVE a kid in Special Ed?! |
| QUOTE (Canuck77 @ Jan 10 2003, 09:05 AM) |
| *Sigh*... It doesn't matter to me whether or not anyone makes fun of your son. I'd point out, instead, that while nobody in his Special Ed class makes fun of him, people in a 'regular' school was. My POINT, anyway, is not that anyone was directly making fun of people with a disability. BUT, by saying that a regular person is LIKE a person with a disability, you're implying that the 'normal' person is somehow superior to the person with a disability, therefore diminishing the value of the person with the disability. It's not a hard concept to grasp, really. It's also why "Special Ed" isn't funny as a character - so my criticism stands, whether you were basing it off of a character on TV, your son, or someone else. Ahh - see there? Think about an "ADHD Award" (or ADD Award), where someone posted a picture of your son. Anyone who acted like an ass was given it. Why isn't that funny? It's the same thing. It's not funny because it diminishes the importance of your son. Your son IS not a disability, but he HAS that disability. By mocking someone, SAYING they have that disability, you lower that person below a 'normal' level, and lump your son in there with him. As far as being sensitive about it, you're right. Probably too much so, especially for a forum of this type - nobody wants to talk about that sort of thing. What would be the POINT of arguing with Retard Monkey about that? Or (whoever the hell it was who originally came up with that Generation Matrix thing, and Biosboy who copied it). There's simply a lower standard of acceptance with people like that. Some people will go through their entire lives unable to grasp the idea that they're doing something that hurts other people, and you just can't reach them. But, if you want, someone PM him and tell him to look at the posting. I'm sure he'd have witty, insightful comments that defend him admirably. Tell you what, BenJeremy- consider it a compliment that I consider you intelligent enough to call you out on what you said. I respect most of what you do on the forum, I think you're probably a good guy in person. I just called you out on this, that's all. I wouldn't have called other people out (as mentioned above) because it would be a waste of time. Cheerio's comment is what I'm talking about, in particular. To take another example, would you give a "wheelchair award" to someone who ended up crippled because of their own carelessness or stupidity? (Say someone who fell asleep at the wheel or tried some daredevil ski trick or something). Of COURSE not - because it's not funny. Or hell - even someone who got drunk, drove, hit a pole and ended up crippled. Would anyone even consider a "cripple award"? The difference is that society has actually bothered to tell kids that it's not nice to make fun of someone with a PHYSICAL disability - but mental and emotional disabilities (and you can go down the list, here - psychosis, schitzophrenia, you name it, it's funny as hell) are fair game. |
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| But here think about this. is the color blue that I see, when I see blue the same color that you see. I mean if every time you see what you think is blue you are seeing the color that I see as brown how would you know? what if everyones color perception is different like that? |
| QUOTE (Cherry @ Jan 13 2003, 02:20 AM) |
| Drugs are bad..... |
| QUOTE (Canuck77 @ Jan 9 2003, 10:09 PM) |
| THEY are worthy targets, but people in Special Ed (*or* people with Down's) are not. How about something like "The Moron Awards", or something along those lines? If you've truly got a kid in Special Ed, you know damned well that he takes a whole shitload of abuse from his friends for it - and that it doesn't do him any service to be saying what you're saying. There's been TONS of this kind of stuff on this board - from that "Generation Matrix" thing, to that "Shut The Fuck Up Award" (with the Down's kid crossing the finish line at a Special Olympic event)... and it was one too many. The fact that you consider it a high horse at all is sad, really - it implies that you wouldn't expect most people to be beneath making fun of Special Ed, Down's, or whatever. My point is this: If you called it the "Polock Awards", you should get flamed, because equating annoying, uninformed people to Polish people isn't right. As you so rightly say, why is it alright to equate it to people in Special Ed? ...and you HAVE a kid in Special Ed?! |
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| People cuss and take Christs name in vain often here and make fun of Christians (sometimes). |
| QUOTE (KazuyaWaruasobi @ Jan 19 2003, 09:33 PM) | ||
ME! ME! ME! Nothing satisfies quite like a nice cup of blasphemy!! Anyway, my nomination for the Special Ed award goes to: *drum roll* |
| QUOTE (Lizard_King @ Feb 18 2003, 07:24 AM) |
| I believe such an attitude is founded more in making *you* feel good than it is on making *them* feel good. |
| QUOTE (Raised @ Feb 19 2003, 12:57 AM) | ||
That is true for absolutely every action a human being does in his life. |