I'm pretty sure XBMC will recognize RCA (like the original xbox remote) remotes only by default. you need to get the codes for the buttons and edit the appropriate XML files:
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XBMC on the Xbox only can be put in a test mode to display the code number read when you press a button on your remote by setting <displayremotecodes> to true in advancedsettings.xml.
http://wiki.xbmc.org...ference_only.29
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I'm really curious as to whether the remote is working at all.
Pretty sure it is.
QUOTE(tmcw @ May 7 2012, 10:52 AM)

When in Xbox, I can see the codes coming up on-screen, like 0=48, 1=49, etc.