QUOTE(Torrean @ Feb 21 2006, 07:31 PM)

Ok, I just had that problem, you need to make sure that you're firewall let's Xlink Kai go through port 3074 and that it's UDP. Then go to your config and in the Kai Port box, put in 3074, it should work now.
So how do I Port Forward? I think Im having this same problem because everytime I host a game, people will try to join and then they will just get kicked as if the room is not there. So if you can school me on Port Forwarding, thanks.