Nice job not posting the other PM's I sent, man. And by the way, I'm going to give Iriez credit here for admitting that he is partially to blame (for giving access to the dir), and give credit to heinrich for stating that I'm "the person who I feel is most responsible for leak". As you say, it looks like many people are to blame, here.
My overall point here is that you're hyping this leak WAY too much. Everyone wanted the release, that's for certain. Someone just gave them all what they wanted. And if it was going to be released that day anyways (as you said in a PM to me, Iriez), then it was probably the same version or only minor changes. So what's the big deal? Someone just sped up the process. It's not like it's giving any of you a bad name, here. The emulator is a VERY good release and I applaud your efforts on it and your efforts to continually better the community. You may think that I prove this statement wrong myself, but sometimes you have to choose a lesser evil.
As for the previous PMs, I'm thinking about putting them up on my webspace for everyone to see, since you left out LOTS of information and discussion regarding the subject.