Konman: lol fishing line, I like that, i think ill try it next time, maybe with floss or something =) good idea. remember, the only thing you need to do is to properly secure the chip so do what you think it will take to get it properly aligned. Also, yes you can solder, you can use pin headers if you want, or you can use wires (its much more difficult to solder the chip in so i REALLY dont recommend soldering the lite+)
RedShirt: Yes that is what im saying, you dont need to bend the metal or shave the plastic. If the bolt you are using isnt that thick, then there will only be a tiny warp when you screw down the mobo, and that really shouldnt effect your mobo operation in the long run (i havent had any complaints of failed boards with this method. so i honestly dont think there is anything to worry about.)