No, the two pins I took out were the right ones according to the pictures in the guide. I'm not sure on the numbering of them myself, but yes I compared them to the guide multiple times and also this is the 3rd or 4th one I've done.
As for wires crossing over each other, yes. The two wires furthest away from the screw crossed over one another (the ones nearer the alternate D0 LFRAME from the bottom of the MB), they were insulated so I didn't think EMI would affect them. I used 30 guage wire BTW. And it was all very clean soldering with very little excess wire.
I've got one more idea to try but unfortunately I already sent the box off to my friends across country.
My thoughts were this: If I remember right wasn't M8plus1.6 just for 1.6b xboxes? This box was just a 1.6 not 1.6b. Do you think I might have used the wrong bios? When my buddies get it in a day or two I'll have them try reflashing it if you guys think that might be the problem. Or maybe I'm just remembering wrong...
And I would have tried putting the lite onto a 1.4 or earlier box too, but all I have around at the moment are 1.6b's.
Thanks for all the advice from both of you and especially all the trouble you've (Christine) gone through trying to figure this out. I wouldn't let it bother you too much more at this point seeing as how the situation is something that can easily be accommodated.
I'm actually about to start installing my next X-Lite (not sure what ver. the xbox is yet, just barely picked it up...) and hopefully everything will go as expected this time.
Thanks again.