Okay, here is what you need to do.
1. Make your xbox controller usb compatible by checking out
<<THIS TUTORIAL>>2. Get the XBCD Drivers
<<HERE>>3. Install the XBCD drivers (run the exe) and then plug in your controller without the memory card
4. Don't plug in the memory card yet. Just plug in the controller and add the XBCD Xbox Gamepad to the list of your hardware devices (new hardware installed, install drivers automatically)
5. When it says, new hardware installed properly, you're almost good to go.
6. Download the Action Replay software
<<HERE>>7. Install Action Replay
8. Plug in your xbox controller and plug in the memory card
9. The memory card will be noticed as a new hardware device and then install the dirvers automatically
10. Done!
^^^Is that clear enough for you?^^^ B)
ok i followed ur tutorial and trhe AR sign at the top of action replay blinks on and off 3 times its like the control and the memory card are totally separated because when i plug in the control it says xbcd xbox gamepad or sumthin like that but then i put the memory card into the control and it just asks to install some more drivers?