Use windows defogger or conductive pin if you think you suck at soldering... also have some alchohal on the side just incase you need to remove the window defogger... when doing it with window defogger use a tooth pic. =)I forgot to mention that you need a 256k bios for this TSOP, thanx BillGates138to clear up some stuff about flashing the TSOP on 1.3 i am gonna run with you guys what i do in order to flash 1.3's
This method works with 1.2's as well.i have now flashed 3x 1.3's already and many 1.2's
this is what i do for 1.3's
there are 3 solder points.
once you solder the below points make sure you are using raincoat 0.5 with a newer .conf file make sure it says
Flash = 0x20B0,"ST 29F002",0x40000 in it.

solder both points that are marked in red!

then solder this point, there is some coding on the point so you may/must scarp is softly so get a good connections.
becare not to over do it.
if you get an error that its not erasing, you might be using an old version of raincoat.
and if it gives you an error about the TSOP type then you need to edit the raincoat.conf file.
many thanx to kobe and psi for pointing the way.