Hey all, thanks for helping.
bishop05 - I used the small blue wire that comes with the Xenium ICE to solder from the Xenium d0 pad to the underside d0, but the same thing happens. plus the box frags WITHOUT anything "foreign" in it.
silentsnake - yeah i know, really big no no, i didn't have all the tools i needed. this particular xbox was fine the night before, but yesterday i tried to turn it on and there was no video, so i thought maybe something came loose. i opened it up and asssumed the d0 boom was loose. i took pliers not tweezers and tried pushing the d0 in further ( i found that it had to be pushed in harder at times depending on the box) problem was my hand slipped, the boom bent and ripped the ring out with it.

Needless to say, dumb, really dumb.
acemilo - thanks but i would still have to do the d0.
so guys, to be clear, with nothing in the box, nothing foreign, back to a stock version, it won't boot, it just frags with no video. any ideas about that?
apreciate all your help.