I'm a flux junkie. I find it REALLY helps the magic happen.
If you paint a little flux on the joints you want to solder, you can close your eyes, jab around then iron, and then open your eyes. When you open your eyes, you'll be suprised to see a professional soldering job.
Look a little to the left. The burn marks and heavy corrosion are what you just did ;-)
I'm just joking. I find it does really help me now, tho, and it definately did when I was learning how to solder. It helps the solder flow away from the source of heat and onto the target joints. It's a highly corrosive acid which helps the solder 'stick' and flow as it would at very high temperatures.
Solder contains rosin in it for use as flux (rosin is an acidic solid made from pine. Good for playing the violin, too). Many people say that this is all you need, but I believe you need higher temps wothout additional flux, too.
Most people recommend against using it, but as I said, I'm a flux junkie. Your bubble-but joints would look like babies bottoms if you used a little. Just make sure you clean up with rubbing alchohol and a q-tip after.
You should be very proud of yourself for all of the work and dedication that you've poured into your xbox. I really hope that you get it working.
Good on ya.
-Jay