do you have everything hooked up properly, meaning, dvd, hdd, a/v cable. again, i kinda ran into the same thing, the led on the chip wasnt lit, no i figured there wasnt power going to the chip, so i tore everything apart and come to find out the all my solder points were good, but the fuckin LED on the duox2 didnt work.
take a look at
THIS.. pic and solder the BT to the other point which is 3.3v, therefor giving it constant power and not having to use the eject/power button.
if all else fails, just throw it away like im about to do with mine.