You can and should use the female to connect to the pinheader installed into the LPC-bus. And for 1.6 consoles, there's no need for a LPC-rebuild so really the installation should be pretty straight forward.
1. Solder the pinheader onto the LPC-bus
2. Solder BT L1 and D0 from the motherboard onto BT, L1 and D0 on the chip
3. Put the chip on the pinheader
4. Power on (by holding the button pressed for 1-2 seconds)
That should be it, good luck
*edit*
Thanks for the image $langer, I added it to the tutorial as an example of a nice, clean BT, L1 and LPC installation. Its in there now.
http://www.antonjarl.com/AladdinXTAlso updated the male pinheader image and added some red X's to make it more clear which header pins needs to be removed.
oh, and I updated (?) your stylesheet Bulan, I was just getting tired of that white background =)
Regards