I think i understand the problem.
1. I live in the US, and we don't use SCART from what i understand. I looked on the internet, and SCART is nothing i've ever seen before, it doesn't look like anything i see on the xbox either. The xbox in the US might have this, but if it does, it looks very different.
2. Since my connections look nothing like this, i'm not going to try and figure out this mess, if other people want to, feel free.
3. I made these drawings with the cable in front of me and i'm pretty sure that's what mine looked like, maybe they make them different ways, it shouldn't really matter.
therefore, this guide should work for people who live in the US. as far as the cable goes, who knows, maybe they made a totally different system for those in the UK or wherever this SCART business is used.