Thanks for your help alphaomega, however I knew those details and that wasn't the problem. After hours of trying it seems to have fixed magically lol. It seems I needed to run dvd2xbox while a dvd was in the drive for the FTP to work for me. Seems extremely peculiar but once I had a dvd in and ran that it recognised it's I.P. was 192.168.1.7 and not 192.168.0.2, I think I also changed the setting to not having a static I.P. or something, either way I'm a very happy bunny with XBMC on my xbox

Thankyou's!