Before adding the memory or doing any other mods, make sure your box is unplug and you have grounded yourself from any Static Electricity!!
Since the XBox MB I have, have little mound of solder on each pad, I used solder wick to remove it first. The other link (NEWBIES) mentions this. I think the newer MB, don't have this problem.
You can tell by looking at the memory spot and running you finger across the pads.
Here are the steps I used.
1. Removed the extra solder on each of the memory pad with solder wick. The video show the pads as being tinned, not with a mound solder on them.
2. Placed a
small amount flux around the pads. (just like in the video, but use less)
3. Line up pin 1 of the chip with pin 1 on the MB. Look at the another memory chip on the MB as a comparision.
4. Align the pins
5. Double check the alignment of the pins. I used a pair of extra fine tip tweezers.
6. Check alignment of the pins on each sides.
7. Check alignment of the pins again!!! (get the point)
8. Tack down one pin in a corner with the Solder iron. (DO NOT ADD ANY SOLDER)
9. Check aligment.
10. Tack down one pin on the opposite corner. (DO NOT ADD ANY SOLDER)
11. Check alignment. (After this point there is NO turning back!!)
12. Now slowly move the solder iron along the pins on each side, just like in the video.
13. Double check for any shorts between pins with a magnify glass. I used my wife's embroidery magnify glass.
If you compare the pins on the chip you just soldered in, with other memory chip, you will see that there is less solder on your chip. This if fine. With the solder still tinned on the pad and the solder tinned on pins of the chip, there is plenty of solder to do the job.
As for difficulty, it was challenging.
My suggestions:
DON'T RUSH IT!Take you time!
Do 1 chip an hour!
The 1st time I did this, it took over 4 hrs. (I did not remove the mounds of solder first) Afterwards, I found lots of shorts.
The 2nd time it took an hour. (This time I removed the mounds of solder first) Afterwards, I found 3 shorts.
The 3rd time it took 45 mins. Afterwards, I found
No shorts 
Here is a sample one of the chips I soldered in. As you can see, very little solder is used.
