it better auto update in standby mode... anytime the Wii tries to connect to the Nintendo servers it's PAINFULLY slow...
after setting up the console it seriously took 42 minutes to perform the update... after staring at the update screen for about 10 minutes I popped on a TV show and just checked on it every few minutes.
after 40 minutes I turned it back to the console I though it was maybe frozen but I didn't want to power it off and screw it up mid update... while thinking about what I wanted to do it finally completed.
Checking out the Wii store was equally as painful, 2min+ to load the next page and ever 2 or 3 pages I'd get an error message
it's not my connection either because Xbox Live is FAST, my friends typically have me host when we play online simply because I've got the best connection.
...I guess you get what you pay for.
do you have any wireless devices near eithe your router or your wii when i first tryed connecting with mine the wireless phone was cuasing interference.