Ive found both pc ports (yes, by eidos) to be lackluster. The psx version was more solid, and it was just plain easier to play with a controller rather than the keyboard. Theres that weird chocobo "tamgotchi" thingy on the ff8 pc port though.
but yeah, i agree, ff8 lacked everything that made FF's a hit. What bugged me most was the junction system and the drawing of spells....thankfully the went back to traditional styles in ff9. Characters were also not convincing, and the "romance" was stupid.
ff9 is awesome, and xenogears is amazing if you have the patience to go far enough, so that it actually is amazing. And yes, there are plenty of ff8 fans out there. Just personal preferences. I hate morrowind, and yet there are tons of people who love it.