Most of us DON"T.
Repeat, we don't! My family has lived in the US for 20 years. I have never been shown the sort of hospitality by almost any other group of people that I have been shown by American families when I visit.
And I will emphasise this time and time again, I don't hate Americans.
I disagree with many of your govts policies, and I think yr govt has lied to you and needs to be reigned in by a greater democratic principle.
(I suppose as a European/Brit even tho' ex-pat living in Asia, I count as YOU PEOPLE
by yr description!