i find it surprising that you switched from "the US" to "us"....
anyway, about the oil... America needs the trade of it. saying if you support us you can have some trade too, well thats just stating what would be assumed anyway.. if you liberated iraq, iraq would trade with you.
the thing is, most of the country WANTS change. the only thing going to war against the US is saddam. the country itself, which is made up of general populace, is NOT under attack by the US but rather by it's own government. but nobody seems to want to agree with this.. because the US is the only evil government out there right?
and we havnt been in nearly as many wars as the british yet, and half of them were with europeans.. it's not like we're picking on little kids here