ok well, im VERY surprised at my findings. So I bought another DPDT switch, same thing, i think, its a 5amp, DPDT ON/ON switch. Soldered it just like I did the other, and now both HDs get power on the switches respected position. So Llamma sold me nothing but shit, i cant believe it. First the IDE cable isnt even the right lengths, then it falls apart, and now i found out the DPDT switch was either the wrong one for this mod or faulty.
Thanks for everyones help, now that I solved my biggest problem, i think i can tackle the HD issue, im just going to end up using my other 8gb stock WD drive, and hopefully the two drives can get along on one cable, then i have to find a place that sells 3 or 4 device IDE cables. Does Radio shack sell em? OR any place online? Ive searched no dice.