Conker: to get it working this is what you do step by step
1: If you have more than one networking card make sure the correct network card that is attached to the router from the computer is selected
2: Open up your web browser and type in
http://192.168.0.1 (or click link i've provided)
3: Enter your login password
4: Click on the advanced tab
5: Virtual Server should now pop up (if not click on virtual server on the bottom)
6: Type in, under service port, 34518
7: Under server ip put in the ip address of your computer (you can find this out by going into start- control panel- network settings-select the network card attached to your router and it should be listed on the left hand side of your screen in the blue section)
8: Click on enable
9: Repeat steps 6-8 but instead of putting in the port 34518 add ports 34519 and 8602
10: Click on Basic on the bottom of your screen
11: Click on tools and select Reboot
That should allow you to open up xlink and connect. Good luck!
In response to fin on resetting the router: actually what I meant previously was that in an attempt to upgrade my routers firmware the upgrade went awry and left my router in a dead state constantly asking for an update to the firmware. I was finally able to correct it after months of not being able to by some strange method. <