It depends on which Ethernet chip is in your 360, it could be the ICS, or the BCM. The ICS chip ya can find new, if ya hunt for it, but the BCM one you'll have to get from another 360 motherboard.
While the ICS can be replaced with a soldering iron, the BCM must have a hot air setup to be replaced, and the ICS really should as well, it's not exactly an iron friendly kind of chip, unless you're really good with the iron.
I've replace the ICS before on a few boards (with hot air) and that fixed the NIC right up, never had one with a BCM to replace though.
While the motherboard is setup to use either chip (ICS or BCM) ya can't just straight swap them, the support components, Capacitors and Resistors around there, are in different places depending on which Ethernet chip is used, so swapping from a BCM to an ICS or vice-versa while doable, is way more hassle than it's worth.