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1) Extract XeXMenu_v1.0-LIVE.rar to "XeXMenu_v1.0-LIVE" folder on a usb stick
2) Extract XeXMenu_v1.0-XEX.rar to "XeXMenu_v1.0-XEX" folder on your usb stick
3) run the old XeXloader from your hard drive
4) navigate to the "XeXMenu_v1.0-XEX" folder on your usb stick and run the default.xex
5) using this program, navigate to /Hdd1/Content/0000000000000000/C0DE9999/00080000/ and delete the file
6) navigate to the "XeXMenu_v1.0-LIVE" folder on a usb stick, click copy the file
7) go back to the folder /Hdd1/Content/0000000000000000/C0DE9999/00080000/ and paste

quit back to dash and it will all be done for you
Thank you both, this worked perfectly. I love the new menus....