QUOTE(charlieaf92 @ Oct 18 2006, 07:35 PM)

The games currently available for the 360 have xbox live added as an afterthought. The interface is terrible and you can tell that they slopped everything together at the last minute. The best example of this is that the entire game ends if the host drops out of Ghost Recon.
I agreed with you upto this point, then i saw your thing about halo 2 and lost all respect for you.
Original Poster, DO NOT judge XBL based on either GRAW or saints row. Saints row is laggy online (and we're waiting for volition to fix it). GRAW is fun but only with the right people. If you're a n00b and you jump into a sharpshooter room, expect to get raped. I'm not going to sugar coat it.
Play co-op missions online with people first. When you find people you like, play sharpshooter, LMS or siege (or even solo!) with them.
My advice to you? Pick up burnout revenge and play some of that online. It's fun as hell. Or even rent out a few games & check out what they're like online. You get 1 month of free gold XBL so you may as well use it.
I love XBL. I've met some awesome people on the service and made some real good friends. Give it a try.