I used a 15 foot cable because I have read other people's success using long ethernet cables. Apparently they were lucky. It also allowed me to easy switch between the computer and the TV, because the cable was long enough.
In any case, I cant seem to get either findsecdata or 360 HDFR to get my HDD back up to snuff again. HDFR has me write the secdata_patch.bin file at an offset of 0x3b4, which while nandpro says it flashed ok, there is no difference in HDD usability. findsecdata had me flash two files to two different offsets, and this still made no difference.
I dont think I'm using these tools wrong based on all my reading. I've read that they're not perfect at always choosing the correct secdata to overwrite.
Martin, mind taking a look?

Yep, R/W using a 15ft Ethernet cable via LPT is not only risky but miraculous that it ever worked at all!
I've still got a copy of your NAND so I fired it up in 360HDFR. The issue is you have two entries for November 2009, either (or more likely both) have compromised data for preventing HDD installs.
You've written the one at offset 0x3b4 (dated 13/11/2009), so also write to offset 0x242 (dated 03/11/2009)
If THIS doesn't work, go through the following offsets in this order, trying after each write:
Let me know how you get on.