well in response to the reply about shiny objects.... only the outside of the controller shell is chrome, the inside is that flat white.
I have still yet to find out where the signal is coming from on the controller. It seems to shut off at the strangest locations. For example, I took the controller downstairs, and went right below the room where the 360 is, and it stayed connected. But when I'm 7 feet from the 360 reclined in my couch and my knee interupts the straight line from the controller to the console, it disconnects. But it will be random, like I could press the top of the controller to my knee and it'll stay connected, or I could sit the same way for 3 minutes then it'll just disconnect...but movement is a factor. Also, I discovered something new. One of my TV remotes was laying on the desk and the way that I sit, my 360 controller aims at it, so I moved it and placed the IR bulb thing an inch away and aimed it at the controller and slowly moved it to various places...and the controller disconnected a few times... So after moving the TV controller elsewhere, the controller seemed to disconnect a lot less, but still does it.
I also removed the faceplate for a little while, but was still experiencing the same disconnect patterns.
Do you think maybe it's the chrome shell on the console??
Tonight I'm going to replace the original controller shell (since I don't have another wireless one) and try that for a bit. If that doesn't work, I'm going to remove the chrome console shell.
But my controller shouldn't disconnect with just my knee 5-10 inches in front of it and the console right?? It doesn't make sense because I can block the entire controller with an object such as a box, and nothing happens.
Also, I remember seeing messages during saving periods where it says "Please do NOT turn off your console or disconnect your controller." Now I know first hand what turning off a console does to a save game when I did it with PS2, but does disconnecting the controller whilst saving really do anything? I'm nervous as hell playing these games that autosave every now and again because my controller seems to disconnect at random times.