The resolution was set to 1080p because it was at my friends and he has an HDMI cable. Apparently consoles with HDMI ports can be set to 1080p without being connected to HDMI, but consoles without HDMI ports can never be set to 1080p (It's always grayed out)
So I went through a lot of testing and cable switching when the answer was a setting issue. I just wanted to post this, because I was about to post about how it doesn't work, but I found my answer and I hope someone else reads it and kicks there system back into HD land with ease.
Yes, I know it doesn't always have to do with the settings!
Just to recap I had audio, but no video for component, and composite worked and component cables with the AV cord set to TV worked.
Cheers XS
(You could add this to the sticky/announcement in anyway you want, it would have saved me some time if I saw this)
Wrong.
You can select 1080p when you are using a VGA cable. It's not possible to transmit 1080p with component.