QUOTE(curiouscharles @ Apr 12 2006, 09:18 PM)

i'm still only level 12, i've never played morrowind so oblivion is completely new to me...no i don't know where to get lockpicks, i'm assuming from fences but i'm not sure where to find those even...your condescending remarks aren't helping me asshole
Well you should take his 'condescending remarks' into consideration. Take the game slower, man. Don't get in over your head (forgive me if this is offensive too). It's amazing how many people think this is a pick up and play game. Sure, it is to an extent (moreso than Morrowind), but we can easily tell who's taking their time with the game and who's getting in over their head (running into numerous problems along the way). I find this game very simple, which isn't because I knew about the game for months before release, but because I've played it for a bit. I played Morrowind, and Oblivion is very, very different. A lot of us here have little to no experience with Morrowind, yet we can still understand how to play.
I've run into many little problems, but I work them out in the game with a smile on my face. Sometimes I take a break from the quest, and other times I find the solution fairly quickly. I had things like unlocking doors and persuading npcs down in my books very quickly. If you don't know how to do these things, then it somewhat proves that you aren't really playing much of this game, but, as I said, getting in over your head wth quests that require you to do so, for with experience comes knowledge. Knowledge is required for many things in this game, one being successfully opening a door.
You get lockpicks in caves, fences in the thieves guild, and from bandit corpses.
If you are having trouble speaking to NPCs, learn how to. I started the game not knowing, but 5 minutes through I figured out how the persuasion minigame works (Big quarters are for good reaction spots, small quarters are for bad reaction spots).
Buy a beguiling spell or scroll (a spell effect that makes people temporarily like you more) if you wanna get past the numerous npcs.