Ok, I decided to scrap the controller card and opened up my pc at work using XP64bit windows. Turned on the onboard sata and selected IDE in the BIOS. Then I booted to dos and turned on the XBOX while the status "STARTING..." displayed. Everything worked finally. My only problem was with the xtremebootmaker 3.1 program. The version I downloaded does not work completely. Firstly, it doesn't create a msdos startup disk. I had to do that using windows/format. Secondly, it doesn't automatically create a hacked.bin file. I created it manually using x360sam. After creating, booting back and forth from dos to windows, and manually moving files to the correct dir's, it finally flashed everything and all works well. I have noticed that the samsung drive works so much better "quicker" at reading the discs than my hitachi. Also, I have had no problems burning the disks at 16x and playing them. I have been burning them cautiously at 2.4x
One last note, it seems that using my hitachi drive via hotswap method, produces better results in boot time versus using my Plextor. It rips half the speed is my guess. I haven't yet used the samsung to backup.
Also, this may be needed as a new post but I have issues using the gary-opa 2.3 firmware to extract the ss.bin. It seems the stealth mode keeps me from getting the security sector. I found the 2.1 firmware to work doing this but 2.1 will not boot any discs while in the xbox. It spins then stops then spins again before I get an error of bad disk. Meanwhile I have to reflash to original then to 2.1 to extract, then back to original and then last flash to 2.3 to get up in running. If anyone has any suggestions, I would appreciate it.