My specs are in my sig, I can run surreal just fine. Flash your chip with 4981.06, delete the surreal folder on your xbox HD AND delete the folder where it stores things(saved games, surreal.ini etc) on the E: partition (chech the pinned help thread for the location, its in the first post). RE-DOWNLOAD surreal, unrar it to its own folder on your desktop. Inside the "surreal" folder create a new folder titled "roms", then open the "surreal.ini" and have the rompath set to "Rom Path=D:\Roms\". Then FTP it back over to your xbox and see if it works.
By the sounds of it you already know how to do all this, I just wrote it all out for simplicities sake, just to cover our bases. Your setup sounds similar to mine, and if it works on mine it stands to reason that it should work on yours. Good luck.
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On a side note, do you create your own menu.xml's or do you let mxm auto menu take care of things? Personally I make my own menu.xml, and if you do too maybe you set the path to the default.xbe wrong, could have a spelling error or something, Id check this first then do the above.
This post has been edited by neverwill on Mar 20 2004, 05:43 PM