QUOTE(eagleone @ Jan 23 2010, 10:23 PM)

1) which one should I do first... the jtag or flash the liteon, if not in conflict better to do both.
Doesn't make a difference.
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2) sine with jtag box cannot go on live (and I won't) wich ixtreme firmware to use on liteon DVD, 1.6, 1.61 or 1.7 LE (just released).
Use the newest one, lite touch.
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3) on the net I hear talking about ixstreme stealth and nostelth but on xbins I cannot find it which one is it?
You're not going on live so stealth makes no difference.
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4) once I jtag, I want to update the dash to last possible dash before jtag killer and than remove the resistor, If i do remove this resistor when I turn on the 360 will the dash come up or nothing will before install xexmenu or alternate dash. that is after jtag will I ever see again the stock dash (blade or last possible one before jtag kill)?
xbr contains the latest cracked dashboard. Once you remove the resistor the regular dash will still come up. xexmenu isn't an alternate dash, you install it and then run it like you would an XBLA game.
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5) will I be able to play newest wave 4,5,6 games with jtag or jtag goes ok without wave?
You can play anything, make sure you remove the system update folder from rips. I know Army of Two the 40th day won't booting unless the system update folder was removed.