All said, I've read every link you posted, that's great to have a few pinouts on the IDE cable (don't have enough of those laying around).
Ok, you found the specs on the IDE cable pinouts, congrats, and it only took under a minute.
"Fortunately, the standard data connector has no live power signals, so damage is not typical if the cable is inserted upside-down (though the drive won't work that way, of course!)"
"Power (+5 / +12volts) is supplied over a four pin connector (unless the 50-pin connector is used). There are a number of power (down) modes defined: Active, Idle, Standby, and Sleep.
Active: normal drive operation.
Idle: the electronics power down but still receives commands.
Standby: the drive spins down and the electronics power down.
Sleep: every thing is powered down, the electronics will not respond except for a power reset."
Thus in standby and sleep modes the drive is essentially OFF, as I stated before.
Those links had alot of information, but nothing regarding this issue directly.
You may be right, or it may never cause a problem. From what I know this second after readin every page you sent, and reading everything else I've read, it's not an issue.
When it all comes down to it, in a real world application, as stated before, I've done it, and have YET to have a problem in a year, others have done it, and have never reported a problem. Even if you feel it CAN happen, does not mean it WILL happen.
I think you've read my attempt to get you to dissprove myself all wrong, it's not to be taken in a hostile way, but in a manor to assist the rest of the scene as well as myself. With all the lip flapping we've both done, the only hard concrete evidence that's been provided is myself as well as many others have done this, and not had an issue, you stand alone right now, that's why I gotta give you a hard time so you work hard to "shut me up" and prove your point

In closing.. to answer you initial questions.
We're not talking computers, or production PC's that do this, or anything along those lines, so why would I care to find something that we all know doesn't exist? Stay on topic.
Why must I show you a technical doc saying you can do it, when it's been done and it works and after 365+ days of running it has yet to fail?
Show me a technical doc that says it WONT, and not just IDE specs and standards, we are far from standard on anything here.
Now, you've amde all these points saying it shouldn't work, or it should do this or this could happen, but it doesn't and hasn't and chances are wont. That's how it is no if's and's or but's.
FYI I didn't call you crazy, I'm trying to pick your brian for the information you say you have, and the actuall proof regarding this exact issue, so don't get cranky it's all in the fun of modding and for everyones benifit.
"The ATA-1 standard stipulated that a ATA bus only accommodates two drives. These are addressed using 0 (master) and 1 (slave). Since both drives have an onboard controller, each "hears" all of the IDE commands sent on the IDE bus. Thus, the need is resolved to determine for whom a command is sent. The ATA-1 specification also details two transfer modes in which commands and data may be sent to a disk. These are programmed I/O (PIO) and direct memory access (DMA) [3]. "
That has nothing to do with what we are discussing, cause the powerd off drive do not interfere in anyway with what drive is seen as master and slave.
so in everything you posted and wrote about in your rebutle, what have we learned?
Fortunately, the standard data connector has no live power signals.
Idle: the electronics power down but still receives commands.
Standby: the drive spins down and the electronics power down.
Sleep: every thing is powered down, the electronics will not respond except for a power reset.
No voltage through the IDE cable, seems like we are running in circles, just to chits and giggles I've been asking around at work, the typical answer I get is...
No it wont destroy the IDE Bus, there's nothing that would cause it to fail, no voltage goes through the IDE cable. No technical documentation is needed, cause it wont fail.
Anyway, lunch is over, back to work =(
Ping... come back with a pong

Don't you love a fun debate =)