Ok had a big of fun today tring to find someone nice to lend me their eeprom so i could on on xbox live cause i was being a dumbass and got myself banned. That is besides the point. i found a cool cat in irc told me his was a banned eeprom to but that was all i could find thismorning in a mid rush to start ripping the shit out of someone in Unreal. To the main point now:
Before i switched to the other banned eeprom
mod off i am getting
x: 0000:F001
Y: 00AB-6860
Z: ...
aka the y number 6860 meant i was fucked
now threw up the new eeprom though banned on the kid i got it from is now:
x:0000-f001
y:00c2-03e0
z:8015-1917
supposively unbaned right? No well not as far as i could tell shut the mod off bootup in the xbox live cable connected, ip found, dns resolved, but still no xbox server found. gave good old xbox a call for 45 mins we unplugged my cable modem ran strait though... still no go

so to the xyz code i should be unbanned but i am not... though the s/n on the top of the xblive screen is still the s/n of the kid who gave it to me .... xbox tech support didn't know what to think of that when he asked for that and the one on the bottom of my xbox ... "What the fuck that isn't right" -xbox techie- also xbox gave me some insite on what one of the x codes stand for
x:0000-f001 <-- you did not set your mac id
x:0000-f021 <-- manually set mac id
hope this helps you as you have helped me i have a conclusion that the accutal banning is on individual servers as far as xyz but the s/n is banned across the entire network system ... But i am pulling that out of my arse.

Thanks to pCeSlAyEr for the help.