First let me start off by saying that I am using Windows ME. Okay I went over you guys's suggestions and it still didnt work. Okay so I find my IP by going to START>RUN>WINIPCONFIG, right? I get this :
IP Address : 192.168.1.100
Subnet Mask : 255.255.255.0
Default Gateway: 192.168.1.1
Which do I put where in the config.xml?
I made folders on my C: drive that go like this :
C: streamMusicmp3 (the backslashes arent working for some reason when I edit post)
I also made folders C:streamVideos and C:streamPictures but didnt put anything in them yet -- I just want to see if Music will work first.
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Now I look at my config.xml ......
<share>
<name>Network (XNS)</name>
<url>c:
[email protected]</url> (or should it be 192.168.1.100?)
<cachesize>256</cachesize>
</share>
Okay so the folders on C: and the path in the config.xml seem to match up (I am probably wrong though, please correct me on this one).......
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Now I go to look at RelaX (I am using relax_ns.exe)....

It looks fine to me as per what you guys said, unless I am missing something or leaving something out. This is VERY possible since my head has been spinning trying to get this stuff to work, heh.
Another question : what about the other stuff in RelaX? For instance, in the "Extra Options" and "Connections" windows, what should I have set there? In Extra Options, I have Server Port at 1400, Debug level at 0, nothing in the three long boxes uder debug port or in TBN directory and then I have this in Extensions : *.avi;*.mpg;*.mpeg;*.divx;*.dat;*.jpg;*.jpeg;*.mov;*.mp3;*.mp2;*.mp4;*.wmv;*.wma. I have nothing in "For these IP's Only" , I havent checked the two boxes below that, and in Proxy host I have PROXY1.PROXY.NET and Proxy Port set at 8080.
Okay now I just went into XBMP amd clicked on Network XNS and nothing happened. I even put in an SVCD and went to DVDROM (ISO9660) and it played it in XBMP.