thanks man, that worked, i didnt know about the skins.ini widescreen setting.
A thought for the future, 4x3 movies and tv shows should have a setting to auto stretch while not stretching widescreen content. Personally, owning a widescreen tv, any content that is 4x3 i try to stretch out to aviod burn in, so its a small pain to change the screen options everytime i switch between the 2 aspect ratios.